Heyy bloggy baby :) ,how you doing?having an awesome life?.There's nothing much to update about my life ,it's going as usual only.

I wonder why there is a need to get married in young age? ,your age is just in between 23 to 25 ,and your parents already started to plan about your wedding ,for an example ,you should get engaged by the age of 23 and get married by the age of 24 and have kids at the age of 25.This is so ridiculous.

Yeah i do understand that our parent's can't wait to see us being happy having a family of our own but they should understand that this is not a right time for us to get commited right?.We know when we should get married and start having our own family.

What are we gonna do getting married too early?.It's not an easy thing as eating :).It's a life-long commitment.Even a small mistake can bring bigger problems to a married life.

Lemme tell you from my point of view ,what a woman gotta go through after getting married.

Getting married isn't with that one person ,it's about getting married to the whole family of the person you're marrying ,you will be the centre of attraction ,every one's eye will be looking at you even after you get married :).Everyone will be expecting you to be P-E-R-F-E-C-T ,altough they are not.Pressure from your family side ,your parents.It's like you can't be your ownself.

First year of married life ,is a honey-moon year ,both will be in good terms,everyday ,every hour ,every minute ,every second and every mili-second will be a lovey-dovey moments and the real married life disaster starts on the second anniversary and it get's worser if you already have a child :).

You divert all your attention from your man to your baby ,you give all attention to you newborn's ,till you forget about your old-grown-up-baby ,and you get tired of doing your house chores ,till you can't spend much time with your grown-up-baby and atleast your man would understand your situation untill you have 3 kids :) ,he will be little supportive to raise up the kids with a good behavior and education.

And while you're experiencing this phase in your life ,you tend to forget to take care of yourself.You look old ,with big tummy and un-fashionable ,you stop to take care about you ,all you care is about your family and not yourself.

And sometimes ,your old-grown-up baby will go seek someone else attention ,that's where the big disaster arrives *jeng jeng*.

Well not all mens being so :) ,only some.

And finally ,your life and your family will be screwed up.

What a disasterous married life of a woman??.

To tell you the truth i am not a strong girl to face all of this alone :) ,no one knows how your life could be in the future.But then what if you face all of this disasters? ,it's more worser than earthquakes and tsunamis :).

So be stable before you step futher in family life ,first in financial ,be strong than him ,think wisely and maturedly ,don't depend too much on him ,have something strong to back you up when he tries to push you down and more of it ,please look after yourself often :).

Well ,i have lotsa to share with you guys ,but then i do need time for myself too right?So off to Midvalley :D.

Baaaai.