guys with clingy girlfriends.

Hyee bloggy how have you been?just got back from exam ,well all went well the only thing is i screwed up my first pieces because of too much of nervousness ,till my hands all started shaking :p ,but i feel i will pass the exam ,CONFIDENCE !! ;).

Exam is done ,next plan - tattoo :D,i have always wanted a sun tattoo and that too on my wrist ,i dont know why ,but i want it that's what matters and i don't know how am i gonna bare the pain :/.then Thailand trip ,i just can't wait to go to the beach :D,yaaap i love beaches especially those white sandy beaches.So far august has been awesome to me and i will make sure it will be till the end.God ,bless me and everyone okaay?.

Okaay now let's skip to the topic :).

So the story goes like this ,there were a time were girls used to brag about them having boyfies who controls each and every action of them,who stalk them on friendster ,who check their text messages and being too too strict but now everything has gone upside down.It's the gilfie's turn to take control of their boyfriends.

Note : not all the girls :).

My first question ,why are you being in relationship?.Love is nothing if you start controlling the one you love.I know as a girl i can understand how you feel.When you are in love ,the guy that you're in love is your first priority ,he is your lucky charm ,your bestest friend than your best friend and there will be this self-fishness feeling to have all of him with/for you.Well it's a normal feeling for a girl who is in relationship but that doesn't means you gotta be all over them and be with them or always want to text,call or talk to them 24/7 and wanting to know whatever they do.

You know what kinda guy you choosed,if not then somethings wrong with you.Your job as a girlfriend is to understand him ,trust him and let him to be him.What you get by controlling him?Stop acting like you're their mom. 

As a girl ,i hate to be treated so.It's like you don't get a space for yourself.How'd you feel if someone asks you to update each and everything you do to them every second.Won't you feel like smacking their face on a wall?and yaah may be that's how your boyfriend would feel if you treat them like a five year old kid.

The reason why you bf's not texting you and be with you for 24/7 is because you are too much to handle.Ofcourse they want to be with you ,but they do need some time alone too,to think ,to be themselves and to do things they like.They are not always cheating on you ,unless if they are a jerkish playboy's.

It's always healthy to have some distance in your relationships.Atleast you get to do new things and then having a story to tell them,it's better than having nothing to talk about because you're always sticking to each other like Siamese twins and then things will get boring.That's when things start to get bad and rocky.

So ladies,you don't need your man to be with you 24/7.Do your thing and give them their own space and fun.And you'll see,they're the ones who's gonna want to be with you more :D.

Have fun loving :).

Missing someone too dearly is the best feeling :),i miss you boyfie.