New mom ;).

Hai bloggy !,How have you been?.I know i made a promise to you that i will update everything with you but you know shit happens and life has to go on.Well ,well ,i am back again.

I know it's extremely late for me to tell you this but hey hey i am a mother now.It has been nearly 6 months plus since i have been awarded with this beautiful tittle.Loving every second of this precious moment.

Being a mother ,giving undivided love and care to your precious little one is the most amazing job i loved to do.I used to admire my dad ,and have always had a little jealousy over him because he is being a father ,sole bread winner for the family  and also being a superhero at the same time.

But after having Arthi.Oh i am sorry ,forgot to introduce my little one to you yeah,well her name is Arthi.We had a little difficult time to find a right and perfect name for her.But we managed somehow.

And yeah ,after having Arthi in our life ,i am blessed to have taken up mother role.Being with her for 24/7 ,sleeps with her ,wakes up with her ,it's like i am devoted to her.And i am loving my full time mommy job.

People used to scare me ,especially those old aunties ,telling that once you got married and have kids ,you wont have time for yourself ,you will be running around like a mad dog doing everything for everyone.And no one will ever appreciate you and BLAH.

Well ,it's might have been with them ,because there were no one to understand them ,their dreams and there were no one to support them.

But thank god everything is just right for me ,having a supportive husband and encouraging family is an extra blessing for me :).

Being a new mom have taught me alot.Being tolerable ,patience ,calm and always be happy.At times you will feel like punching on people face ,all you gotta to do is keep calm and look at your baby's face.

Being a mom has also taught me to be bold in decision making ,well it's your baby ,you should decide and know whats good or bad for him/her.Dont ever let someone take away your rights to make decision for your baby.Take their advice but dont let them decide.

I used to hear this advice of  ''don't carry your baby too much or else she will be too clingy'' from whoever came to visit us.Well at first i did follow their advice but then it was like why should i listen to them?.Even we adults need someone to pamper us and seek attention from our loved ones.And why shouldnt a newborn baby gets all that attention and pampering.

They were in our womb for 9 months and they need us to be around to feel save and protected once they came out to survive in this competitive ugly world.After all they only know their mom.

Well for now Arthi is being abit clingy ,well its normal ,i was like that too.Like mommy ,like daughter.

And there will be another group who will be talking about ''how does the baby looks like''.Well for your kind information ,baby will look like a baby.Stop judging the newborn's skin colour ,looks on the first day itself.It's not decent.

Let the kid grow normal.Be normal.

Let us be the parents.

Thank you.