Heyy hai bloggy :) ,how are you?Hope things are going well with you ,sorry for dumping you all this while.But still there are visitor who is still showing love to you :),so don't worry okaay? and I LOVE YOU too :).
Thought to post about this topic for a long time ago but i didn't really had much time to think about the points that i gotta shoot in.But after few days ,finally got the points to elaborate in this topic ,hope it's something thinkabale la.This post might hurt some peoples feelings.I am not trying to provoke things up or what ,i just shout what is real ,thats all.If this post hurts you ,then that's what i want :).I want you to get hurt and think and find ways to change the world.
Let's get straight to the topic.
This problem has been getting into so many peoples life ,family and even into relationship.Most of the times our dad's will be the villain in our relationship but there's a bigger and more stronger villain than them.I guess by right now ,so many of you have guessed the right answer.And for those who answered wrongly ,NO NO ,the answer is not your grandad ,definitely he is not stronger and bigger villain that your dad but OLDER than them :) ,okaay chill ,i just tried to make some jokes.Laugh la okaay ? :D.
And for those who is still blurring ,cracking the head ,and thinking ,all i gotta say is STOP ,i will reveal the answer for you guys.
This is it ,the bigger ,stronger villain which couldn't be destroyed for decades even till this date ,right now.
CASTE
Agree??.
Caste has been a big problem in everything and everywhere ,where there's an indian there's always a caste problem.Even in Malaysia ,the so called multi racial country.I just don't get it why there should the be a caste'ism in this era?.It's already 2011 ,people are too busy thinking about their future and upgrading their life but there are some backward thinkers who still bringing up caste problem among us.This problem always occurs in marriages ,espeacially in love marriages ,where two perfect people,who are from different caste falls in love with each other with just one hope - parent's blessings.But then ,the parent's who should be blessing their kid's relationship are the one's who bring up this caste problems.
Come on lar ,caste don't find job for you ,but you education and you skill does.Caste don't feed you and your family ,you gotta go earn money to feed them.Caste don't do anything for anyone.It doesn't bring happiness for everyone ,it might for some but how about the rest of peoples who are involved?.
If you are a strict caste follower ,you shouldnt just bring up caste in marriages ,you should see caste in the food you eat ,the clothes you wear ,the water you drink ,the house you live in ,the people who you shake hands with ,the money you use/hold ,the road you walk on ,the god you pray and even the toilet bowl that you use.But no ,you don't see caste in all that but why in marriages?.Every match is made in heaven with the blessings of god.So what's the problem with the caste?.
And where the hell your caste system went when you are doing your business?.You need customers for your business ,regardless of their caste ,why?cause you need to run you damn business to survive?.Why didn't you set your caste rules in it?.Why different rules in different situation?.If you see caste in marriage then you should consider about caste in your work place and in everything as i said above ,that's when i will respect you.You don't care about caste in anything else but only in marriages?Why?.Think.
There are people who sees caste when enrolling in schools ,in education system and in everything.There is a riot happening in India now ,just because of this idiotic CASTE.And so many people dying.Why can't we just treat everyone same?
Yah ,there were some brainless people who created caste like 1000 years ago ,but that was according to their job.No offence people ,there are so many many of the uses this word to discriminate other ,it's a commony used word - PARIAH ,do you guys know the real meaning of this word?Have you ever thought of the real history of this word?I know most of you guys will shake your head up and down ,but no.The real meaning of this word is not what you think.The history of this word ,it was not known as pariah ,it was parachi that carries the meaning for prostitutes ,again i am telling it was a name for a female who does a prostitution.And male who goes to this prostitutes are the one's called pariah's.And they just don't care what caste guy you are ,if you go to a prostitute then you are a pariah.That how this pariah word got famous ,but nowadayspeople are using the words for different purpose.
So now ,do you know whom you should call pariah's?not the normal one's who lives a normal live but to males who goes to prostitues.I don't know who ,but you ,yourself and the man up knows the truth.So think wisely before you use a word to people.
Caste doesn't do anything to anyone othere than damaging people's life.Stop caste'ism and treat people as how they are ,everyone is unique in their own way ,treat them right not according to what caste they are in.
Hope this post really made some caste freak out there to think and change their way of thinking ,if not hope you guys GO TO HELL.
Caste'less.
20110920
20110910
Heee bloggy :) ,finally after long time had the chance to update you.Happy? :DD.
Was just thinking what to update and still i got no idea to talk about any topic ,i am running out of topics nowadays ,haaaiz how saddening.To my readers or followers just inbox me to my twitter or facebook about whatever topic you want me to post :).
Deepavali is like in two months and i am too excited ,very much EXCITED for everything ,shopping ,cleaning the house and thinking of changing my room colour and then the most awaited day will be eve of deepavalli where me and ash ,my sister will be doing kolam :D ,where my dad will screw us at first but after the final touch of the kolam he will be like ''Waaaaaah ,so beautiful and bla bla bla ,this happends all the time :p.Mom's mutton curry ,chicken curry tastes different on that day ,it will taste extra special ,wonder why and how :/.Then the sound of firecrackers and laughters of the visitor ,house full of people and etc etc.Wish to have deepavalli everyday :).
May all my wishes comes true one day,keeping finger crossed :).
Okaay bloggy ,times up for my work will come back to you soon ,loves.
Was just thinking what to update and still i got no idea to talk about any topic ,i am running out of topics nowadays ,haaaiz how saddening.To my readers or followers just inbox me to my twitter or facebook about whatever topic you want me to post :).
Deepavali is like in two months and i am too excited ,very much EXCITED for everything ,shopping ,cleaning the house and thinking of changing my room colour and then the most awaited day will be eve of deepavalli where me and ash ,my sister will be doing kolam :D ,where my dad will screw us at first but after the final touch of the kolam he will be like ''Waaaaaah ,so beautiful and bla bla bla ,this happends all the time :p.Mom's mutton curry ,chicken curry tastes different on that day ,it will taste extra special ,wonder why and how :/.Then the sound of firecrackers and laughters of the visitor ,house full of people and etc etc.Wish to have deepavalli everyday :).
May all my wishes comes true one day,keeping finger crossed :).
Okaay bloggy ,times up for my work will come back to you soon ,loves.
20110901
goodbye august ,hello september :).
Haai bloggy ,how have you been am sorry for dumping you for FOUR days ,as you know went to thailand and reached home yesterday around 11pm something :).Trip was FUN will upload the pictures in FB and will story about the trip in my coming post okaay?.I am still sleepy lar bloggy :/.
Catch you soon ,baaaai :).
Catch you soon ,baaaai :).
20110828
20110826
Hyee bloggy without delaying on introduction let's get straight to the story that i wanted to share with you,a very heart-wretching real story that a woman had gone through and now resting in peace in god's arms.
God if you can feel me ,my one and only request is please send her to heaven.
I have never seen her or met her before all i got to know about her is through my piano teacher.She is also a piano teacher but worked in a different centre.She is just 43 and passed away like few days ago.I just don't know why god gives so much suffering and pain to those good people and let the bad ones live a heavenly life?.
She was a single mother with her only son ,where is her only hero?the one should've made her happy,should've protect her?.DEAD ?? ,nope as every other woman's story and as every other guy - he went with another woman,leaving her and their only son who was 2 years old at that time.I can't be sharing her private life but then her story really did made me tear.I mean why??It's like everywhere i turn or every woman i meet all of their stories is making me to think twice to get married ,aren't there any good gentleman who is making his lady love happy?,is mans getting selfish or are they just getting married for that one thing - SEX ?.
A question for all the husbands who cheated ,cheating on your wife :
What does other woman has that you can't find in your wife?.
Why is it so hard to be loyal to them?To your family?To your kids?To your wife?.Not really in the mood to continue blogging ,hope this post really opened your eyes guys ,when a woman getting married to you ,all she wants from you is being true and loyal to her.It's not expensive as diamonds right?.Think.
God if you can feel me ,my one and only request is please send her to heaven.
I have never seen her or met her before all i got to know about her is through my piano teacher.She is also a piano teacher but worked in a different centre.She is just 43 and passed away like few days ago.I just don't know why god gives so much suffering and pain to those good people and let the bad ones live a heavenly life?.
She was a single mother with her only son ,where is her only hero?the one should've made her happy,should've protect her?.DEAD ?? ,nope as every other woman's story and as every other guy - he went with another woman,leaving her and their only son who was 2 years old at that time.I can't be sharing her private life but then her story really did made me tear.I mean why??It's like everywhere i turn or every woman i meet all of their stories is making me to think twice to get married ,aren't there any good gentleman who is making his lady love happy?,is mans getting selfish or are they just getting married for that one thing - SEX ?.
A question for all the husbands who cheated ,cheating on your wife :
What does other woman has that you can't find in your wife?.
Why is it so hard to be loyal to them?To your family?To your kids?To your wife?.Not really in the mood to continue blogging ,hope this post really opened your eyes guys ,when a woman getting married to you ,all she wants from you is being true and loyal to her.It's not expensive as diamonds right?.Think.
20110824
20110819
NEED YOUR HELP.
Well readers and followers this is not really urgent but i need it ASAP ,needing your help :),help me guys pleaaaaase.
Okay ,i need piano sheets for Marry Me by Train ,i love the song very very much ,and i need the piano notes for it so that i can play it on my piano ,i tried to find out on net but then we gotta purchase it online itseems ,what a saddening situation right? :'(,can anyone help me please.
Pleaaaaaaase :'(.
Loves.
Okay ,i need piano sheets for Marry Me by Train ,i love the song very very much ,and i need the piano notes for it so that i can play it on my piano ,i tried to find out on net but then we gotta purchase it online itseems ,what a saddening situation right? :'(,can anyone help me please.
Pleaaaaaaase :'(.
Loves.
20110815
God will be kind to you but Karma will never be.
Sometimes people don't realize what are they talking/doing ,right bloggy?,they don't really think what will happend in the future.Selfish creature kan?.No matter how or what kinda life you living now there is always a new chapter waiting for you ,which means you will face whatever wrong/good deeds you did in your previous chapter.
Nowadays Karma doing it's job faster than expected,but sometime it finds a perfect time to hit us on our face.That's when we realise.
I really don't believe in the saying ''they will realise soon'' ,they will regret one day'' ,cause as for me regretting and realising is late.It's like you do whatever you wanna do and regret after few years and what's the point of regretting it later??,You can't take back the words that you threw to a person ,you can't rewind back all your wrong doing and correct it in the future.Then what's the point of regretting?.
Instead of living a life with full of regrets ,don't you think it's better to think wisely before you continue with your plans?.You will live your life as you wanted ,without regrets and be happy,right?.
Think before you do anything ,this is life and not a video game to pause and restart the game all over again.God gave us brains to think ,we eat food and not shit.
God will be kind to you but Karma will never be.
Nowadays Karma doing it's job faster than expected,but sometime it finds a perfect time to hit us on our face.That's when we realise.
I really don't believe in the saying ''they will realise soon'' ,they will regret one day'' ,cause as for me regretting and realising is late.It's like you do whatever you wanna do and regret after few years and what's the point of regretting it later??,You can't take back the words that you threw to a person ,you can't rewind back all your wrong doing and correct it in the future.Then what's the point of regretting?.
Instead of living a life with full of regrets ,don't you think it's better to think wisely before you continue with your plans?.You will live your life as you wanted ,without regrets and be happy,right?.
Think before you do anything ,this is life and not a video game to pause and restart the game all over again.God gave us brains to think ,we eat food and not shit.
God will be kind to you but Karma will never be.
20110812
guys with clingy girlfriends.
Hyee bloggy how have you been?just got back from exam ,well all went well the only thing is i screwed up my first pieces because of too much of nervousness ,till my hands all started shaking :p ,but i feel i will pass the exam ,CONFIDENCE !! ;).
Exam is done ,next plan - tattoo :D,i have always wanted a sun tattoo and that too on my wrist ,i dont know why ,but i want it that's what matters and i don't know how am i gonna bare the pain :/.then Thailand trip ,i just can't wait to go to the beach :D,yaaap i love beaches especially those white sandy beaches.So far august has been awesome to me and i will make sure it will be till the end.God ,bless me and everyone okaay?.
Okaay now let's skip to the topic :).
So the story goes like this ,there were a time were girls used to brag about them having boyfies who controls each and every action of them,who stalk them on friendster ,who check their text messages and being too too strict but now everything has gone upside down.It's the gilfie's turn to take control of their boyfriends.
Note : not all the girls :).
My first question ,why are you being in relationship?.Love is nothing if you start controlling the one you love.I know as a girl i can understand how you feel.When you are in love ,the guy that you're in love is your first priority ,he is your lucky charm ,your bestest friend than your best friend and there will be this self-fishness feeling to have all of him with/for you.Well it's a normal feeling for a girl who is in relationship but that doesn't means you gotta be all over them and be with them or always want to text,call or talk to them 24/7 and wanting to know whatever they do.
You know what kinda guy you choosed,if not then somethings wrong with you.Your job as a girlfriend is to understand him ,trust him and let him to be him.What you get by controlling him?Stop acting like you're their mom.
As a girl ,i hate to be treated so.It's like you don't get a space for yourself.How'd you feel if someone asks you to update each and everything you do to them every second.Won't you feel like smacking their face on a wall?and yaah may be that's how your boyfriend would feel if you treat them like a five year old kid.
The reason why you bf's not texting you and be with you for 24/7 is because you are too much to handle.Ofcourse they want to be with you ,but they do need some time alone too,to think ,to be themselves and to do things they like.They are not always cheating on you ,unless if they are a jerkish playboy's.
It's always healthy to have some distance in your relationships.Atleast you get to do new things and then having a story to tell them,it's better than having nothing to talk about because you're always sticking to each other like Siamese twins and then things will get boring.That's when things start to get bad and rocky.
So ladies,you don't need your man to be with you 24/7.Do your thing and give them their own space and fun.And you'll see,they're the ones who's gonna want to be with you more :D.
Have fun loving :).
Missing someone too dearly is the best feeling :),i miss you boyfie.
Exam is done ,next plan - tattoo :D,i have always wanted a sun tattoo and that too on my wrist ,i dont know why ,but i want it that's what matters and i don't know how am i gonna bare the pain :/.then Thailand trip ,i just can't wait to go to the beach :D,yaaap i love beaches especially those white sandy beaches.So far august has been awesome to me and i will make sure it will be till the end.God ,bless me and everyone okaay?.
Okaay now let's skip to the topic :).
So the story goes like this ,there were a time were girls used to brag about them having boyfies who controls each and every action of them,who stalk them on friendster ,who check their text messages and being too too strict but now everything has gone upside down.It's the gilfie's turn to take control of their boyfriends.
Note : not all the girls :).
My first question ,why are you being in relationship?.Love is nothing if you start controlling the one you love.I know as a girl i can understand how you feel.When you are in love ,the guy that you're in love is your first priority ,he is your lucky charm ,your bestest friend than your best friend and there will be this self-fishness feeling to have all of him with/for you.Well it's a normal feeling for a girl who is in relationship but that doesn't means you gotta be all over them and be with them or always want to text,call or talk to them 24/7 and wanting to know whatever they do.
You know what kinda guy you choosed,if not then somethings wrong with you.Your job as a girlfriend is to understand him ,trust him and let him to be him.What you get by controlling him?Stop acting like you're their mom.
As a girl ,i hate to be treated so.It's like you don't get a space for yourself.How'd you feel if someone asks you to update each and everything you do to them every second.Won't you feel like smacking their face on a wall?and yaah may be that's how your boyfriend would feel if you treat them like a five year old kid.
The reason why you bf's not texting you and be with you for 24/7 is because you are too much to handle.Ofcourse they want to be with you ,but they do need some time alone too,to think ,to be themselves and to do things they like.They are not always cheating on you ,unless if they are a jerkish playboy's.
It's always healthy to have some distance in your relationships.Atleast you get to do new things and then having a story to tell them,it's better than having nothing to talk about because you're always sticking to each other like Siamese twins and then things will get boring.That's when things start to get bad and rocky.
So ladies,you don't need your man to be with you 24/7.Do your thing and give them their own space and fun.And you'll see,they're the ones who's gonna want to be with you more :D.
Have fun loving :).
Missing someone too dearly is the best feeling :),i miss you boyfie.
20110801
Hello bloggy ,Mr.August is here already ,the month that i have been waiting for :D.Exam,Philharmonic Concert with my piano teacher and theory mates (havent checked the schedule),Thailand trip and tattoo'ing :),a very very great month ahead ;).Let's hope for the awesomest :).
And thought of sharing this with you peepz.this happend one week ago.
Was commenting on one of my pet brother's tweet ,it was about this guy who devoted his whole life emo'ing for his girlfie who dumped him and married another guy.It's non other than ,*drum roll please* our great DEVDAS.
Yeah ,for some he might have been a great guy/lover who devoted his life for Paro.I don't deny the fact that he was so in love with Paro,he was but then he just wasted it.Love is to be lived together and strive hard to-get-her.What's life if you can't live with the one that you love and keep on emo'ing and drinking?.It's better to call your self a loser than a guy with broken heart/love failure.right?.
I really don't agree with the term :Situation made him/her to be so.It's us who create drama's and situation's were created by us.
God gave us brains to solve whatever problem we face,running away from a problem is not the only solution,problems will chase us even after we ran away from it .right?.Then the only way is to solve it.
That was the first mistake that Devdas did,and if i were him ,i'd have kidnapped Paro in the first place :D,or else be firm with my decision to marry Paro with both sides parents blessings.Your decision is what matters ,it's you and your hero/heroin who is gonna live together kan?.you know about your gilfie/boyfie better than anyone else,it's your choice and instead fighting for it why wanna run away and end up in a screwed up life like Devdas?.
And i hate his best friend the most,he should be the one who gives idea to Devdas so that he could marry the girl he loved the most ,but then he brought him to a prostitute and damaged his life.Thats where all the fugly habits started.
And guys,please don't ever make Devdas as you role model,if the girl you're dating is worth keeping ,then just don't waste your time,go and marry her :).
Okaay bloggy that's all for now :),will come with a better post,this time it will be for guys :).
Snakes are sexy ;).
And thought of sharing this with you peepz.this happend one week ago.
Was commenting on one of my pet brother's tweet ,it was about this guy who devoted his whole life emo'ing for his girlfie who dumped him and married another guy.It's non other than ,*drum roll please* our great DEVDAS.
Yeah ,for some he might have been a great guy/lover who devoted his life for Paro.I don't deny the fact that he was so in love with Paro,he was but then he just wasted it.Love is to be lived together and strive hard to-get-her.What's life if you can't live with the one that you love and keep on emo'ing and drinking?.It's better to call your self a loser than a guy with broken heart/love failure.right?.
I really don't agree with the term :Situation made him/her to be so.It's us who create drama's and situation's were created by us.
God gave us brains to solve whatever problem we face,running away from a problem is not the only solution,problems will chase us even after we ran away from it .right?.Then the only way is to solve it.
That was the first mistake that Devdas did,and if i were him ,i'd have kidnapped Paro in the first place :D,or else be firm with my decision to marry Paro with both sides parents blessings.Your decision is what matters ,it's you and your hero/heroin who is gonna live together kan?.you know about your gilfie/boyfie better than anyone else,it's your choice and instead fighting for it why wanna run away and end up in a screwed up life like Devdas?.
And i hate his best friend the most,he should be the one who gives idea to Devdas so that he could marry the girl he loved the most ,but then he brought him to a prostitute and damaged his life.Thats where all the fugly habits started.
And guys,please don't ever make Devdas as you role model,if the girl you're dating is worth keeping ,then just don't waste your time,go and marry her :).
Okaay bloggy that's all for now :),will come with a better post,this time it will be for guys :).
Snakes are sexy ;).
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