inspired :).

New phase of life has started, it has been 8 months plus since Arthi was born.Love being a full time mom.Well soon i might start missing this phase of being a full time mom to part time working mom since our mostly waited beauty spa will be opening soon.

Hello Gorgeous ;).

And also, will start blogging back after a very long gap.It will definitely gonna be a lovely journey though.Thanks to my sister for evoking the desire of blogging in me.

She just told me "blogging suits you".

So yeah, i am here.

Keep in touch lovelies.

New mom ;).

Hai bloggy !,How have you been?.I know i made a promise to you that i will update everything with you but you know shit happens and life has to go on.Well ,well ,i am back again.

I know it's extremely late for me to tell you this but hey hey i am a mother now.It has been nearly 6 months plus since i have been awarded with this beautiful tittle.Loving every second of this precious moment.

Being a mother ,giving undivided love and care to your precious little one is the most amazing job i loved to do.I used to admire my dad ,and have always had a little jealousy over him because he is being a father ,sole bread winner for the family  and also being a superhero at the same time.

But after having Arthi.Oh i am sorry ,forgot to introduce my little one to you yeah,well her name is Arthi.We had a little difficult time to find a right and perfect name for her.But we managed somehow.

And yeah ,after having Arthi in our life ,i am blessed to have taken up mother role.Being with her for 24/7 ,sleeps with her ,wakes up with her ,it's like i am devoted to her.And i am loving my full time mommy job.

People used to scare me ,especially those old aunties ,telling that once you got married and have kids ,you wont have time for yourself ,you will be running around like a mad dog doing everything for everyone.And no one will ever appreciate you and BLAH.

Well ,it's might have been with them ,because there were no one to understand them ,their dreams and there were no one to support them.

But thank god everything is just right for me ,having a supportive husband and encouraging family is an extra blessing for me :).

Being a new mom have taught me alot.Being tolerable ,patience ,calm and always be happy.At times you will feel like punching on people face ,all you gotta to do is keep calm and look at your baby's face.

Being a mom has also taught me to be bold in decision making ,well it's your baby ,you should decide and know whats good or bad for him/her.Dont ever let someone take away your rights to make decision for your baby.Take their advice but dont let them decide.

I used to hear this advice of  ''don't carry your baby too much or else she will be too clingy'' from whoever came to visit us.Well at first i did follow their advice but then it was like why should i listen to them?.Even we adults need someone to pamper us and seek attention from our loved ones.And why shouldnt a newborn baby gets all that attention and pampering.

They were in our womb for 9 months and they need us to be around to feel save and protected once they came out to survive in this competitive ugly world.After all they only know their mom.

Well for now Arthi is being abit clingy ,well its normal ,i was like that too.Like mommy ,like daughter.

And there will be another group who will be talking about ''how does the baby looks like''.Well for your kind information ,baby will look like a baby.Stop judging the newborn's skin colour ,looks on the first day itself.It's not decent.

Let the kid grow normal.Be normal.

Let us be the parents.

Thank you.

People..

Hai bloggy ,it has been ages since i spoke to you.I missed you.I missed the way you will be consoling me when i am down.I missed the way you make me feel whenever i am pouring down my thoughts and feeling.

From the gap we had in our relationship ,i have been meeting alot of ugly characterised humans bloggy.Idk how to explain or tell you about them.They are extremely uglier than their looks.

I am just doing nothing but keep watching their ugly selfs.

Wish i could talk to the god and laugh with him whilst looking at these ugly people :).

Why not?.Why none?.

It's just another day.

Keep calm people ,it's just another year and another day.What's the havoc ?.

And for those eagerly waiting for new year.Happy New Year :).And let's hope everyone's '' good " dreams become true ,let's work hard to achieve new aim's ,and let's complete most of the goal's that has been pending all these years.

Happy New Year All :).

Not much excited for this new year.

Where does this heading to ?.

Hello people :).It's end of the year.Here we are again waiting to welcome the new year with lotsa hopes and dreams.And i pray that everyone's hopes and dreams will come true and all the best in whatever good things you do :).

Well this morning ,when i was checking my facebook timeline ,i came across this post where a secondary school girl screwing anothe girl who is a year younger than her.The thing that made me angry and worried was the the words that she used.As what i know the girl was 14 years old.Her english was rubbish and the reason she screwed another girl was because of her boyfie.Itseems her boyfie is a '' very good looking " guy and the other gilr is trying to ''steal'' the hero from this girl.

Well you want to fight or screw  others,do it privately la.Why wanna so heboh sangat ?.It's like you are the only one who is having a boyfie ,and only you being in a relationship.You are 14 years old and instead of concerntrating on your studies you are fighting to save you relationship ?.

And look at her poor english la.proJust because you know how to say " i love you '' doesn't mean you are a pro in english.She is freaking 14 ,instead of concertrating on studies she is worried about other girls snatching her guy?.

When i was 14 ,i were still watching cartoon's ,ramayana ,mahabaratha ,sings thevaram and read books.But kids at that age nowadays are totally upside down.

They don't have any fear for god ,parents or teachers.It's like they have their own rules and the elderly people should dance according to the music that the young people play.

This situation currently makes me to wonder whom should be blamed ?.Parents ? ,Schools ? ,Friends ? ,social Network or the Media ?.Or everyone and everything?.

Where are the kids who respects elderly people ,where are the kids who doesn't use swear words ?.Well atleast kid's who doesnt use swear words publically ?.

Lost.

This is why the world wants to end.And i just hope the world ends.

books...why books?

Coming back after a year.Welcome back to the world of blogging Komlashni :D.Looks like i will be continuing with my blogging after this more often.No matter what i will still find ways to continue blogging.Atleast 2 posts a week maybe?.

Me still being the same inside but being different outside.Cause no matter what ,life and yourself will never stay the same.Somehow ,someday you have to change yourself for the good.All is well.

Okaay ,let's skip.

BOOKS.Why books?.

Nowadays ,i am being thrown with alot of questions like : Why books ?.What's there in a book ?.Aiyoo ! ,everytime book book book !.Hmmmm,book'a ?.

For everyone's information i read novels.

Well the answer for those questions will be : Soul.

Many would question me back with : Why soul?

Because it brings back the old memories,feelings and moments that has been covered with layers of dusts for years.And it does awakens the sleeping soul.Simple.

Many who reads would agree on it.It brings your mind and soul to fly.You will mingle with the main character and you feel that you are actually the main character in the book.You being the reader ,you feel exactly how the character in the book feels.

Reading makes you to forget the real world for a while.You be the creater of your own dream world and you be the main character in it.

Once you are done with a book ,you feel like you have been left alone in an empty island.A book ALWAYS colours your life for a limited time.But,only the story will stay in your mind and will never want to get out of the journey.

It's easy to ask question and it's not hard to answer but it's hard to explain the feeling you felt.

Only a reader will understand another readers feeling.

Till then let the books love you :).

I am back :D.

Hai bloggie lover;s :).I am back but i couldn't update my blog as much as i could cause i am busy and there is no net connection yet at home.They said it will take nearly a month for them to fix the connection.So i could only come online and update when i have time while working :).

Happy belated new year wishes people.I know i am late but still we are in the first month of the year.So i don't think so there will be any problem if i wish Happy new year now.

Well ,my new year went awesome with him.Celebrated this new year as Mrs.Superman.Married life is going good ,settling down with things.Slowly la but somehow managing together.Perfect home with the perfect person :).

More updates to come soon bloggy :).

Till then take care.

LOL ,in dreams.

tumblr :).

Robert Pattinson: “If you find a girl who reads, keep her close. When you find her up at 2 AM clutching a book to her chest and weeping, make her a cup of tea and hold her. You may lose her for a couple of hours but she will always come back to you. She’ll talk as if the characters in the book are real, because for a while, they always are. Date a girl who reads because you deserve it. You deserve a girl who can give you the most colorful life imaginable. If you can only give her monotony, and stale hours and half-baked proposals, then you’re better off alone. If you want the world and the worlds beyond it, date a girl who reads.”

I am very very much in love with my blog song :D.

Haai bloggy ,it's October and there are two more months for my wedding.I am nervous + asdfghjkl kinda feeling.I have started to miss my family already la.Yeaah ,i will be living five minutes distance from them but then ,nothing can make you feel better other than your parent's home :).I m going to miss every single thing which i lived with them.Haizz.Can't we just rewind the days and restart from the beginning ?

Wondering.

‎25 relationship rules that matter (from facebook).

‎Follow these relationship rules in your own relationship, irrespective of whether it’s new or old. As long as you’re committed to creating a better relationship, you’d have no trouble creating a magical experience out of love.

#1 Try your best to love your partner unconditionally even if it seems hard not to be selfish. [Read: What is unconditional love?]

#2 Think from your partner’s perspective when it comes to matters of the heart.

#3 End an argument as soon as possible, even if hugging your partner is the last thing on your mind. [Read: How to fight fair in a relationship]

#4 Make love regularly, but never allot times for it. Scheduling a time for sex makes it a chore that can start to become a bore.

#5 Communicate with each other and grow together in love, but never grow apart with lack of communication as the years pass by. [Read: How to communicate in love]

#6 Learn to give space to each other to become better individuals. Even the closest of relationships need some alone time to miss each other now and then. [Read: The importance of space in a relationship]

#7 Never take each other for granted. This is the easiest way to fall prey to affairs and arguments.

#8 Say a white lie when you need to, especially if it’s a little lie that won’t change your relationship, but will make your partner feel happy.

#9 Never shy away from positive criticism. As long as you say it in a constructive manner, it’ll help your partner become a better person.

#10 Be the shoulder to lean on, no matter what. Tough times are the most testing phases of a relationship. Stand by your partner, and when the storm ends, love will shine brighter.

#11 Never argue in public, but indulge in public display of affection. [Read: PDA etiquette]

#12 Date each other even if you’ve been together for years. It keeps the love alive. [Read: How to stay in love forever]

#13 Look sexy for each other, and that includes a flat tummy. Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you should let yourself go and look shabby.

#14 Compliment your partner, even if it’s a regular chore or habit. Compliments are the best way to thank a special someone for the effort they’ve taken for you, however small it may be.

#15 Celebrate the special days. Birthdays and anniversaries may repeat itself too many times, but it’s these milestones that create memories.

#16 Never intentionally try to make your partner feel bad or look bad. It’ll leave a lasting scar that can hurt the relationship.

#17 Learn to forgive without holding grudges. As hard as it may be, forgiveness is one of the qualities of true love that matters most in a relationship.

#18 Respect your partner whole heartedly.

#19 Understand that your partner can have crushes on others too. It’s a difficult thought, but if you admire someone else, so can your partner. [Read: Insecurity in a relationship]

#20 Trust your partner and your instincts, even if others say otherwise. [Read: How to build trust in a relationship]

#21 Never grumble or badmouth each other even if you’re tempted to, out of anger or frustration.

#22 Learn to spend quality time with each other. There’s no better way to fall more in love with each other as the relationship grows.

#23 Behave like children now and then. A few pillow fights or cute wrestles can never hurt anyone. But it can help both of you enjoy the relationship.

#24 Be spontaneous with your affections. Don’t always wait for special occasions or moments to express your love. Spontaneous surprises are always happier than planned surprises.

#25 Whatever works! No relationship is alike. Instead of learning from someone else’s relationship, learn from your own relationship’s successes and failures.

Haai bloggy :).Gotta change few things with my life and daily routine soon.Very soon.Planning to get a day for myself.Just for me and other's are not included in it.No matter who.Feel this bloggy : You with a hot chocolate ,dressed not to impress others but for your own comfortable ,playing your favourite songs on your mp3 player ,and roam around a shopping mall.How nice right bloggy ?Orelse.Be at home blasting the speakers with your favourite song ,cleaning the house and cooking your favourite foods and playing with your dog.I want this bloggy.Soon.I hope and i will definitely ask for it.

Don't you hate it bloggy ,when someone says that ''What kinda bad taste you have ?''.Everyone has their own taste ,their own like ,you can't condemn a person's like just because whatever you like is different.Even other's can say that to you too ,right ?.People oh peole.I don't get it why they are not trying to be in other's shoes before saying thing's to other's ?.

Won't they know how it feels ,when they throw out their words just like that.Everyone is not the same.but trying to understand their feeling is something we human can do.But what's the reason they fail to do it?.If we do like how they do i am very sure ,we will get blamed telling that we don't know how to respect and us being arrogant and bla bla bla.

As a human ,we have to go through in everyone's weird kinda character bloggy.But don't let yourself by not making your dream come true :).

All the best being human ,people.

I crapped again ,i guess.

Hai bloggy ,i am having a problem.A very big problem.I don't feel good ,depressed ,tensed and asdfghjkl kinda feeling with people.I just can't get along with them.I just wish how i was before getting into this new kinda character changing.Pretending not to hurt other's feelings but hurting yourself.Keeping idea's to yourself that will make yourself comfortable just because you don't want to hurt other's by saying NO.

Feeling insecure i guess.I can't live my life by my own in here by just giving priority to myself and feeling.I have everyone around me who is with their own dreams.How am i to get out from t his kinda feeling bloggy ?

How nice if there is a small place just for your own self.With a piano ,a puppy ,and plenty of foods ?Just that.So that you won't have the reason to hurt yourself and other's at the same time.

In need of time for me to understand LIFE and more chocolates.

Uff.

I want to bury my face in his chest ,taking in his familiar fragrance ,forgetting the cruel world for a little while.

I miss him being beside me :(.

Sometimes it's nobody's fault.Sometimes it's meant to happen.Sometimes it isn't.Sometimes you wake up tired.Sometimes you go to sleep wanting it all to be over.Sometimes you want to hold on to something that was never be there.Sometimes you want to give up on everything that was.Sometimes you are angry or hungry.Sometimes you are just happy.Sometimes it makes you cry.Sometimes giving up is the easier way out.Sometimes ita ll worth or not worth at all.

Okaay bloggy ,i crapped again as usual.I love you and i need to get a life with full freedom with whatever shit i want to do.Bye.

Get wasted but don't get a bad name.

Good day bloggy :).It's a tiring week la.Just got back from a boring place of my LIFE.Pulau Ketam ,an island with lotsa crab's.That's how i could describe the place.Hmmmm.

Well i just wanted to know that does anybody read's this blog anymore?I don't think so cause i don's see any comments in my shoutout box.Heeeee ,well i kinda like the anonymity.It's so quite like there is no one stalking on you and you are kinda having some space to breath ;).

Sooo.Here goes,today's thoughtful post ;p.Hehehehhe.I don't know how thoughtful it's gonna be and how hurtful it's gonna be to some.I don't mean to hurt you but then if it does I am not sorry for that.

Well ,it's too common nowadays that everyone goes clubbing.People give you that WTF kinda face when you answer for their ''Do you go clubbing? with a ''No'' and the ''Get a Life'' kinda laugh on chatbox'es.I could say so cause i have been hit by the WTF kinda face and Get a Life kinda laugh's so many times.

And no ,i am not gonna justify myself for not going clubbing.Hmmm,maybe yeeees.Let's see at the end of this post.

So,i was facebook'ing few moment's ago and there was a guy shared a picture from a ''not-so-famous-club'' for me ;).A picture of a girl dancing on a small stage i guess[[idk what it's called]] with a guy who can clearly see her ''hidden treasure'' who is standing on the floor.

I didn't know they allow dirty dancing in club's.As i know from what i have heard they don't have dirty dancing in clubs.I know they have pole dancingclubs.Yeeeees ,i admire girls who does pole dancing.The way their body moves ,the crazy ass kicking moves they give us.Shit !,that's unexplainable.Let's get back to the topic.

You go clubbing to have fun ,have drinks ,dance and come back and yeaaah at times when you see a hottie ,you tend to flirt with them.And  you forget everything on the next day when your usual routine starts.

But some ''not-a-hottie'' takes clubbing seriously till they leave their their family values at the door steps.Especially girls.You dress up hot,fine,you want to dance,fine.But what is the urge for you to expose your body that you suppose to show it only to your soulmate to others?.

First of all ,your boyfriend is not your soulmate.Your husband is your soulmate.The one you get married to with your parent's blessing and not the one you date without your parent's knowledge.There is a big different between husband and boyfriend :).Get the meaning first before ''over exposing'' to them.

If you still think that your boyfriend will be your soulmate in the future,then it's better for you to get a room.

It's not wrong if you want to get wasted.But atleast realize what you are doing ,will it effect your future and your family.If it does ,then stop it.Don't even try to do it.

Nowadays kids are way more braver than how i was.I am not gonna have kids anytime soon but i am kinda worried of having kids and bringing up them in this kinda situation.

And i am proud to say that my dad is too proud of us for getting him a good name :).Let jealousy creatures talk bad about us but as for me ,i have never go against my parents and for that i will be living a life with their blessing :).

And my final words ,go have fun ,get crazy ,do stupid things but don't ever get a bad name :).

And bloggy ,i have this small wishes.When i see people tweet about getting drunk and stuffs.I just wish to get drunk.Little too much ,i know.Idk let's see what happends when i get drunk ;).

And i already planned what to post on my next blogging session.Soon to come.

Byeeeee bloggy.

And you (you know who you are !).When is our next date please?Can't wait to for a date with you.

Psychologist Robert Rodriguez author of What's Your Pregnant Man Thinking suggest that 10% of men (the majority of them previously faithful),cheat on their wives during pregnancy.

This got me thinking twice now ;/.

I am doing my part :D.

As a blogger and an addictive tweety bird i need to voice out my opinion on whoever or whatever i want.I am in for this :).Hard but let's fight ;).Even if it's not for me ,i should for my fellow bloggers.